With the last update, it was my children's last day of school and I broke my foot. That happened 12 weeks and two days ago. A lot has happened since then. My parents spent about four weeks here with me to help out with the children while I couldn't walk on my foot. We then headed back east for six weeks.
I had a wonderful summer in New York. My children and I rode back with my parents. My mom drove my van with myself and my two youngest children and our dog. My dad drove back with my two older children and their dog. It took us about 3 days of driving, stopping at night to sleep.
While I was home, I got to see some of my friends. I saw some longer than others, but I was thankful for any time I got to spend with them. Life is busy, and not being able to walk for most of the summer had its limitations.
I got to go to the Hill Cumorah Pageant with my mom, my chldren and one of our friends, who is also the creator and President of MOBU Herbals. It was her first time to go, and it was just coincidental that her visit to NY coincided with the Pageant. We got to have a meeting with her and it helped to introduce the product to some of my friends in the area.
I got to watch a lot of softball games. My brother has played with some of his fellow ballplayers for as long as I can remember. They are like brothers. I enjoy getting to cheer them on. My sister-in-law has played on the same team for years, and I enjoyed getting to see her play and some of the teammates I remembered from before.
My children got to catch up with some of their friends also. They also have children that we consider cousins. They are my sister-in-law's niece and nephews. They spent a lot of time with them. I guess it is hard to explain our family dynamics, but we love my sister-in-law's family as if they are our own. Some of the cousins from Washington also came out for a few weeks so my children got to see them also. We love being together with everyone.
I started to put weight on my foot, without crutches, a couple of weeks before leaving New York. I hate crutches. It is something I never want to deal with again!
We went blueberry picking, which is a very pastime for us. We have been doing that since I was in high school. We spent a lot of time in the backyard. I love my parents' backyard. They have a couple swings that we just sit in and swing. Dad bought a badminton set for the kids to play. They spent hours playing and laughing.
My dad turned 70 while we were there. It is amazing/crazy to me, that my dad is 70. If you know him, I am sure you agree that it seems impossible.
While I was home, two of my sisters and one of my brothers came home. All at different times, but it was wonderful to see them all. The worst thing about living where I do is that it is so far away from family. My sister and her husband will be moving back here in a few weeks, so I am really excited about that.
I honestly would have never come back here if I hadn't left my husband here. So those in this area that are glad, or sad, I am back, you can thank my husband. Those in New York who are sad, or glad, I am not there, can also thank my husband.
I think I have written before about how running helps me deal with life and curb depression. Having not been able to run for the last 12 weeks and 2 days hasn't been good for the psyche. The funny thing is that I was fine in New York, probably because I was surrounded by people that love me. It isn't so much here. I have a really hard time and miss being able to pound the pavement to get over that.
In other news, I weaned my youngest, who is also my last, child while I was back east. She went cold turkey on August 4th. I knew that I would need a lot of support in my decision, so I knew that I should do it while I had that kind of support. It made it a lot easier on me, and possibly on her too.
My kids head back to school tomorrow, so we know that summer is 12 weeks and 2 days long. Although my summer didn't go as planned, starting the evening they got out of school, I can't complain. I am blessed that I was able to spend the summer with family and friends.